Compassionate Responsibility

I am now in year 15 as a volunteer resource provider, former board member and mentor to homeless men on the Eastside of Lake Washington assisting Congregations for the Homeless.  It is a privilege to have spent thousands of hours talking, writing resumes, making trips to the hospital, court or job interviews, bringing spiritual counsel, visiting treatment facilities, providing financial resources and providing emotional support to CFH staff.

I have coined a phrase for dealing with homeless men:  “compassionate responsibility.” Each life has value and potential (compassion) and each person should seek a life style that leads to independence, community citizenship and productivity (responsibility).  Spending most of my time in Bellevue, I give a big shout out to the Eastside political leaders, the police (restraint, respect for the men and uphold the law) and hundreds of volunteers in the non profits and churches (providing beds, meals and emotional support).  CFH staff have a similar philosophy.  I can point to hundreds of men who have transformed their lives some after two or three attempts to get on track.

Recently KOMO Channel 4 prepared a documentary on the homeless crisis in Seattle (Seattle is Dying). The narrator accurately reported that addictions and mental health problems are central to the problem in addition to an inadequate response by city government. The number of tents and filth on the Seattle streets and byways continues to grow. The Seattle police officers commenting on the documentary tell the real story. Potential pathways to solutions: long term treatment with resource support, affordable housing and enforcing existing laws can assist those who are causing this problem.  Leaving homeless people on the streets, or providing resources for “clean” addiction practices is neither compassionate or responsible. Politicians must work with non profits, citizens, businesses, and churches to solve a complicated problem not just maintain life styles in the name of compassion only.

Today I spoke with a CFH graduate whom I had the privilege to mentor for a year.  He now has a job, a car, a brand new subsidized apartment and has made things right with his family.  He is thankful and motivated.  He is over 50. He is my friend.  And now he is showing compassion (helping others) and responsible (for his own well being).  PTL

About Paul

Paul has worked with hundreds of individual clients from executives to recent college graduates related to career transition and life coaching. Paul holds a Master’s Degree in Psychology. He has written a book, How a Man Handles Conflict at Work. Paul founded (1991) the Career/Life Institute and provides coaching, organizational design and career transition serving clients ranging from large organizations to family owned enterprises. He served as a consultant to management teams, and had senior positions for Bank of America, Right Associates and CRISTA Ministries. His ministry outreach includes Poland, Romania, and 11 trips to Ethiopia. He volunteers for Congregations for the Homeless in Bellevue, WA.
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1 Response to Compassionate Responsibility

  1. Rosie Barrett says:

    That is a good long time to do what you are doing. You ARE a people person; very skilled with people. My pleasure to know you. Truly more people should follow what you are doing.

    How is my guy in Africa? His health.

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